The Other Self.

Throughout your life you will meet one person who is unlike any other.  You could talk to this person about anything and for hours and never get bored. You could tell them your stuff and they won’t judge you. This person is your soulmate.

SOULMATE? I think they exist. Just not always romantically.

I think they are certain people you will meet in  your life who you just connect with more that anyone eles and you know it isn’t a typical thing and you understand each other perfectly. And this person won’t be your “significant other”. But you can find your reflection somewhere in them.

For me, that is my best friend. Sadhvi.
Yes. Best Friend. J

Whats that?? What does best friends mean? Well... hold on, here it is, my definition of best friends:

Best Friend - someone with whom one shares the strongest possible kind of friendship. Your best friend should be somebody that you can trust one hundred percent. You should be able to confide in them knowing that they will not spread your news to other people.

How many times have you told a friend a piece of personal information and asked them not to tell anybody else about it? The sheer fact that you had to ask them not to tell other people should tell you that they are not best friend material. All of us have stages in our life when we really need a friend. We may be in trouble, we may have done a terrible deed. What we require in this situation is somebody to support us, listen to our problems, offer advice, possibly a room to spend the night, but most of all not to judge us. We all make mistakes; after all, we are all human. A best friend will offer all of these things without hesitation. We all need somebody to be able to phone from time to time, just for a chat, somebody who will make us laugh and ultimately happy. We all need to have the odd night out, perhaps at the cinema, perhaps to go for a drink or perhaps to go to the theatre. A best friend will be the person to call and will make time for us in these situations.

Who is the first person you call when you have something special to tell?
Whose voice you want to hear when things don’t go your way?

Who finds time to listen even when it isn’t convenient ?

Your Best Friend.
Who always has your back (whether she is down the street, across the country, around the world. )

Twenty years from now, I am gonna look back and remember that they were that person who could turn every frown into a smile in a few simple words. That person who lifted my head when I lost faith in myself.  That one person who carried tears on her shoulders after every fight. That one person who accepted every decision I made.

That one person who knew who I really was and that one person who made the biggest difference in my life.
And after remembering all this I will just go out with you for ice cream or something.

 8 YEARS AND STILL COUNTING….